Remember how you talked
when you first met?No rehearsing. No bracing.
Just saying what was true.
Somewhere along the way,
the walls went up.Now every sentence
gets checked first.How will they take this?
What if the walls came down?You say it, and you're heard,
not jumped on.You get to say it again,
better, without payback.Your shoulders drop.
Your whole body exhales.And the house you tiptoe through
becomes a place you want
to come home to.
Every argument is a knock at the door to a deeper connection.
The Ongoing Argument walks you through a conflict, helps you hear what's underneath the words, and opens the door to feeling safe, seen, and closer than ever before.
Mitch Newman, M.A.
Relationship Adviser
I started out writing for television, where a conflict has to be set up and resolved in 22 minutes. Then I began working with real couples and found the same fight can run for years. Same fight. Same lines. No resolution.
For over 25 years I've listened for the conversation underneath the conversation.
I built The Ongoing Argument so couples can hear it too.
And coming soon, you'll be able to see the argument from the outside looking in.
A self guided communication tool for couples.
Every argument is a knock at the door to a deeper connection.
Ready to discover what your arguments may be trying to tell you?
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